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Korean Greetings & Etiquette: What You Actually Need to Know
Skip the outdated travel blog advice. Here's how Koreans actually greet each other, why you don't need to press your palms together, and the etiquette that actually matters.
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First Things First
A smile goes a long way everywhere — Korea is no different. Most Koreans have a solid grasp of basic English, so even simple words can get you the help you need. Just say "Jeogiyo, sillyehamnida" (저기요, 실례합니다) with a smile, and you'll find Koreans rushing over to help you out.
The Palms-Together Myth
You've probably seen tourists (and even some celebrities) greeting Koreans with palms pressed together and a bow. This is not a Korean greeting. Korea is not Thailand or Japan. The palms-together gesture (hapjang / 합장) is a Buddhist prayer gesture used only in temples. In everyday Korean life, nobody does this. A simple bow — just a slight nod of the head — is all you need. Koreans won't be offended if you just wave and say hello.
Greetings
Do
- A slight head nod (about 15 degrees) is perfect for casual greetings
- Say 'annyeonghaseyo' (안녕하세요) — it works in every situation
- Shake hands in business settings — use both hands or support your right arm with your left hand for extra respect
- Wave casually to people your age or younger
- Bow deeper (about 45 degrees) when meeting elders or in formal situations
Don't
- It's better not to hug or kiss cheeks on first meeting — Koreans tend to have less physical contact with strangers
- Avoid using first names with people older than you unless invited to
Essential Etiquette That Actually Matters
1
Two-Hand Rule
When giving or receiving something (money, business card, a drink) to/from someone older, use both hands or support your right hand with your left. This is the #1 thing Koreans notice and appreciate.
2
Shoes Off Indoors
Always remove shoes when entering a Korean home, some restaurants with floor seating (ondol), and all temples. If you see shoes lined up at the entrance, take yours off.
3
Pour Drinks for Others First
At a meal with soju or beer, pour for others before yourself. Hold the bottle with two hands. Turn your head slightly away from elders when drinking. This sounds intense but Koreans find it charming when foreigners try.
4
Wait for the Eldest to Start Eating
At a group meal, don't pick up your chopsticks until the oldest person at the table starts eating. This is genuinely important in Korean culture.
5
Don't Tip
Tipping is not part of Korean culture — not at restaurants, not in taxis, not at hotels. It can even make people uncomfortable. Just pay the listed price.
The Magic Phrase
Learn 'gamsahamnida' (감사합니다, thank you). Use it everywhere — restaurants, shops, taxis. Koreans genuinely light up when foreigners say it. 'Jal meokgesseumnida' (잘 먹겠습니다, I will eat well) before a meal is bonus points.
Restaurant Etiquette
For detailed dining tips (call buttons, banchan, chopstick etiquette, tipping), see our Korean Dining Essentials Guide.
Quick Korean Phrases
Hello
Annyeonghaseyo (안녕하세요)
Thank you
Gamsahamnida (감사합니다)
Excuse me
Jeogiyo (저기요)
Yes / No
Ne (네) / Aniyo (아니요)
How much?
Eolmayeyo? (얼마예요?)
Where is the bathroom?
Hwajangsiri eodiyeyo? (화장실이 어디예요?)
How do I get to ___?
___ eotteoke ganayo? (___어떻게 가나요?)
One of this, please
Igeo hana juseyo (이거 하나 주세요)
Delicious!
Mashisseoyo! (맛있어요!)
I'll eat well
Jal meokgesseumnida (잘 먹겠습니다) — say before a meal
Please help me
Dowajuseyo (도와주세요)
I'm sorry
Joesonghamnida (죄송합니다)
Plan Your Visit
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